My son signed me into a state nursing home after my stroke because my rehab was going to eat the $140,000 he and his wife had saved for a house, and he told the case manager, “She’s not coming back from this anyway.” Six years later I was giving our graduating class’s speech. He wanted front-row seats. I gave him two.
Six years of learning to walk again, and he wanted a chair near the stage so people would think he’d been there for any of it.
Through a gap in the curtain at the Allen County War Memorial Coliseum, I could see them in Block B, Row 2.
Krystal had on a gold sequin dress, like somebody was going to take her picture on the way in.
Jordan had the program open on his knee and was running his thumb down the list of names.
Looking for the one he still thought belonged to him.
Three seats down sat Deirdre in her blue church dress, holding grocery-store flowers in cellophane.
She’d been crying since the parking lot.
Jordan looked right past her.
He never once asked who took me home.
I was fifty-eight when it happened, standing in a checkout line with a gallon of milk I never got to pay for.
My left side just quit.
When I woke up I couldn’t lift my arm or get my own name out straight.
The neurologist talked to Jordan in the hallway, and the door was open, so I heard EVERY word.
His first question wasn’t about me.
“What’s her insurance actually going to cover?”
The case manager walked him through the months of rehab and what the family would be paying when the coverage stopped.
His face went red at the number.
He and Krystal had $140,000 in an account for a house in a better school district.
I had a walker with my name written on the frame in marker.
“She’s not coming back from this anyway,” he said.
Anyway.
Like I was a car that wasn’t worth the repair.
I’d signed the papers making him my financial proxy the year his dad died, because he was my son and I trusted him with it.
He used it before SUPPER.
By Friday I was in Room 114 of a state facility, my car was sold, and my phone was sitting in a drawer at his house.
He didn’t come to tell me.
Krystal sent a text.
“It’s what’s best for everyone, Selma.”
Deirdre worked nights on that hall.
The first night she sat on the end of my bed with her shoes off and said, “Honey, that boy ought to be ashamed of himself, and I’ll tell him so to his face.”
She stayed past her shift doing my exercises with me.
Squeeze the ball. Lift the cup. Again.
When the facility started talking about making my room permanent, Deirdre walked into the meeting still in her scrubs.
“She’s coming home with me,” she said.
Nobody at that table expected it.
Least of all me.
She didn’t owe me a thing.
She put a rail in her bathroom and picked up Saturday shifts to cover my outpatient therapy.
She cut the tennis balls for my walker herself, one green and one orange, because the store ran out of green and she wasn’t going to make me wait.
“You’re going to outlive his opinion of you,” she said.
I went back to school at sixty-one.
Nursing. Nights, like her.
I knew what it was to lie in that bed while people stood in the doorway deciding what you were worth.
In March they told me I had the highest marks in my class and I’d be giving the speech.
Eleven days later the school emailed me.
“Jordan and Krystal Sorensen contacted our office stating they are your son and daughter-in-law, and they’ve requested reserved family seating near the stage. Would you like them added?”
My good hand went numb on the mouse.
SIX YEARS.
Not a card.
Not one call on my birthday.
Now there was a stage and a microphone, and he wanted everyone to see him clap.
I called Deirdre.
“Give them good seats,” she said. “Up FRONT. Where they can see.”
So that’s what I did.
And now there he was, elbows on his knees, leaning in like a man waiting for a check to clear.
A student volunteer touched my elbow.
“Ms. Oakes? You’re on right after the director.”
Oakes.
NOT Sorensen.
I took my maiden name back the same month I walked across Deirdre’s kitchen without the walker.
Director Upton carried my handwritten card across the stage and laid it beside her notes on the podium.
Krystal had the program up near her face.
She stopped turning pages.
Jordan set his program down on his knee and didn’t pick it back up.
Deirdre pressed the flowers flat against her chest.
“Before Ms. Oakes speaks,” the director said, “she asked me to read one line, exactly the way she wrote it.”
Then she read it aloud, her amplified voice reaching the whole arena.
“This is for Deirdre Boone, who took me home from Room 114 when MY OWN SON WOULDN’T.”
Krystal was on her feet before the director looked up from the card.
Block B, Row 2
“She doesn’t even know what she’s saying,” Krystal said.
She said it loud.
The director’s microphone was still on, and it picked her up from the second row like she’d paid extra for it.
“She can’t say her own name. Jordan told me. She can’t even say her NAME.”
Half the coliseum turned around in their seats to look at a woman in gold sequins.
Jordan had her by the wrist.
He was smiling at the people behind them, the smile he used on waitresses when the order was wrong and it was his fault.
Director Upton held my card flat against her chest.
Deirdre didn’t move.
The cellophane on her flowers crackled every time she breathed.
“Ms. Oakes,” the volunteer said. “Do you want to wait a minute?”
I’d done my waiting in Room 114.
I took my cane and walked out past the curtain.
It’s twenty-two steps from that curtain to the lectern.
I’d counted them at rehearsal Thursday.
Deirdre’s hallway is nine steps long, so I’d practiced it two and a half times a night for a week while she stood at the end with a dish towel like a referee.
Director Upton handed me back the card.
She bent the microphone down to my height without asking, which I appreciated, because I’m five foot one and the boy before me was built like a refrigerator.
I put my good hand flat on the wood.
“My name is Selma Oakes,” I said. “I’m sixty-four. I say it fine.”
Somebody in the back laughed.
Then a lot of people clapped, the kind of clapping that’s half relief.
And in Block B, Row 2, my son let go of his wife’s wrist and stood up.
He clapped louder than anybody in the building.
He turned all the way around so the people behind him could get a good look at his face.
“That’s my mother,” he told the man next to him. “I’m her son.”
The orange one
The speech ran four minutes.
I’d timed it on Deirdre’s egg timer, the one shaped like a chicken.
Before I started, I took the tennis ball out of my gown pocket and set it on the lectern.
The orange one.
The green one wore through two winters ago, and Deirdre threw it out without telling me, which I have decided to forgive.
Six years ago in October, my first week in her house, she sat on her kitchen floor with a steak knife and cut an X into each ball.
I could get about four words out in a row by then, and I spent three of them on “You don’t match.”
“Neither do I,” she said, and jammed them on the walker legs.
That’s what my speech was about.
A woman on a kitchen floor with a steak knife.
I said it to the whole coliseum, and the whole time I could see Row 2.
Jordan sat back down once people quit looking at him.
He folded his arms.
That’s how he sat at his dad’s funeral, front pew, arms folded, and every woman from church told me afterward what a good boy he was.
He’d handled everything.
The casket, the flowers, the obituary, the casserole dishes.
He put masking tape on the bottoms with everybody’s names so they’d get their dishes back.
That’s why I signed the proxy that year.
A man who labels casserole dishes, you figure he’ll be careful with you.
He was careful.
He mailed me one thing in six years, a single sheet of paper with a total on it.
My savings and what he got for my Buick, $31,206.40, and two words typed underneath: “Applied to care.”
Room 114 was paid for by the state.
I asked the woman in billing the day Deirdre wheeled me out.
She looked at me like I’d asked her what color the sky was.
I didn’t fight him for it.
I didn’t have it in me back then.
I had a walker, a spare room, and a woman who sat up Sunday nights at the kitchen table typing on her phone, holding it out at arm’s length because she won’t buy readers.
Her sister in Muncie, I figured.
Sisters are a lot of work.
And in the hall closet, in a bread bag, I had a baby hat I’d knit with my bad hand for a grandbaby I’d never laid eyes on.
It took me most of a year.
Deirdre took a picture of it on the kitchen table and said it was too good not to.
I finished. I said thank you. People stood up.
Down in Row 2, Krystal held her phone up the whole four minutes.
She had it pointed at Jordan.
Two hours later he was waiting by the lobby doors with his arms open.
The lobby
The lobby was balloons and grandmothers and somebody’s toddler screaming about a cookie.
Jordan got to me before I had the cane set.
He hugged me with both arms, and Krystal said, “Smile, Mom,” and took the picture over his shoulder.
Mom.
In eight years she’d called me Selma, and “your mother” when she thought I couldn’t hear.
He still wore the same cologne his dad wore.
Nobody needs to smell that at a graduation.
“You look great,” he said. “You look really, really great, Mom.”
“I’ve been walking.”
“I can see that.” He laughed like I’d told a joke.
Then he got his phone out and held it up in front of me.
A little boy in a Colts shirt, missing a front tooth.
“Easton,” he said. “He’s five. He’s got your ears, God help him.”
I’d knit a hat for those ears. Bread bag. Hall closet.
I couldn’t say anything.
I looked at the picture until he took it away.
“Christmas Eve,” he said. “Come to the house. Krystal’s folks will be there. Her dad, Tommy, he put money in on the house, he’s big on family. Easton wants to meet his grandma.”
“Does he know he has one?”
Krystal looked at the floor.
Jordan put the phone away.
He leaned in close, the way you lean in to tell somebody their tag’s sticking out.
“That thing with the card,” he said. “People filmed it. It’s already up. Maybe you put something out. Say you got emotional. The stroke, you know. People get confused.”
“I wrote that card on Tuesday,” I said. “With my good hand. I spelled everything right.”
“Mom.”
Then Deirdre was there with her flowers, mascara streaking her cheeks, cellophane and all.
She put herself between us so fast I nearly lost the cane.
“You,” she said to Jordan. “I said I’d tell you to your face, so here’s your face. You ought to be ashamed of yourself.”
He smiled at her.
That was the worst of it, how easy he smiled.
“You’re the one who told us about tonight,” he said.
Then, to me: “Ask her, Mom. Six years she’s been after me. Wants me to take you off her hands.”
I looked at Deirdre.
She never said he was lying.
Deirdre’s kitchen
We didn’t talk in the car.
Deirdre drives a Corolla whose dashboard rattles past forty, and it rattled the whole way home, which was a mercy.
At 11:40 she put the flowers in a mason jar, took her church shoes off and sat down at the kitchen table.
“Did you tell him?” I said.
“I told him.”
“About the speech.”
“About the speech.”
“How long?”
She pushed her shoes under the chair with her foot. “Since the first week.”
I sat down across from her.
It’s a small table.
You can’t sit across from anybody at it without your knees touching, and I moved mine.
“He said you wanted him to take me.”
“And you believe a thing that man says.”
“I don’t know what I believe. Six years, Deirdre. You never once said you were talking to my son.”
“I wasn’t talking to him. I was talking AT him.”
“Saying what?”
She picked her phone up off the table and held it out at arm’s length, the way she does.
Then she turned it face-down.
“No,” she said.
“Deirdre.”
“You lived in my house six years. You decide what you think of me without it.”
I should’ve stopped there.
I’d been a graduate nurse for about six hours, and I already knew you don’t say things to people at midnight that you’ll want back at breakfast.
“You’re sixty-one,” I said. “You work Saturdays because of me. You put a rail in your bathroom. I’d want somebody to take me off my hands too. I’d be tired.”
“Selma.”
“He was right about me. He just did the math faster. I’m the car that wasn’t worth fixing, and it took you six years to figure it out.”
Deirdre stood up.
She didn’t cry.
She’d done her crying in the parking lot.
She took the mason jar off the table and set it in the sink, flowers and all, and ran water into it like that was the thing that needed doing.
“Go to his Christmas, then,” she said. “Eat his ham.”
Her bedroom door clicked shut behind her.
Deirdre has never slammed a door in her life.
I’d have liked it better if she had.
The candle
By Sunday morning the clip had four thousand shares.
Somebody in the balcony had filmed the director reading my card.
Jordan put it on his own page with a paragraph under it.
“My mother suffered a stroke six years ago. A caretaker from her facility took her home and we have not been allowed to see her since. We have tried. Tonight she was used to humiliate her own family in public. Please pray for us. Christmas is hard.”
He’d put a little candle after “Christmas is hard.”
Krystal shared it at 7:02. Tommy shared it at 7:30 and wrote, “Some people.”
Deirdre’s name was in the comments by eight.
A woman from her own church asked whether it was true she’d “kept” me.
Like a stray. Like I’d come with a collar.
Her phone rang all through breakfast.
She let it.
She put the blue dress back on and went to church anyway, and came home and made potato soup, and left me a bowl on the stove with a plate over it, and went to bed at seven.
Sunday night, her phone sat face-down on the counter by the coffee maker.
Nobody typed anything to Muncie.
Monday I called Jordan from the phone Deirdre bought me three years ago, the one with the big buttons I pretend I don’t need.
“Take it down,” I said.
“Mom. Hi.” He sounded like he’d been sitting by it. “I’d love to take it down.”
“Then do it.”
“Come Christmas Eve. Let Krystal get a nice picture of you and Easton by the tree. People see that, it’s over. It comes down that night. I promise.”
I thought about Deirdre’s name in a stranger’s mouth.
I thought about a boy in a Colts shirt.
“Fine,” I said.
“Wear something nice,” he said. “And Mom? Leave the cane in the car, if you can.”
I don’t have a car. He sold it.
Christmas Eve
Christmas Eve was a Thursday.
The cab cost thirty-eight dollars, and the driver wanted to tell me about his gallbladder, so I got my money’s worth.
The house was gray with white shutters and a wreath on the door the size of a tractor tire.
Four bedrooms, Krystal had said.
The school district had a website with a blue ribbon on it.
Somewhere in that house was a share of my Buick.
Tommy opened the door.
Big man, red sweater with a reindeer on it.
He shook my hand like he was checking a cantaloupe.
“So you’re Selma,” he said. “Well. Family’s family.”
Krystal’s mother took my coat.
Krystal hugged me and didn’t let go fast enough, and I felt her look down at the cane.
I’d brought it.
He could take it up with my physical therapist.
Then a little boy came around the corner in his socks and stopped dead.
Easton. Missing the tooth. My ears.
He stood behind Krystal’s legs and looked at me the way kids look at a dog nobody’s introduced them to yet.
“This is Grandma Selma,” Krystal said.
“Hi,” I said. “I like your airplane.”
It was a Lego airplane, missing a wing.
He held it out to me.
Not to give it. Just so I’d know.
I could have stood in that hallway with my coat half off until New Year’s.
Jordan had the pictures set up by the tree.
“Mom, right here. Put the cane behind your leg. Easton, buddy, sit with Grandma.”
Easton sat on the very edge of my knee, like I might go off.
Krystal took eleven. I counted.
In every one I’m smiling like a woman holding a hot dish with no potholder.
“Is it down?” I said to her, low.
“He said after,” Krystal said.
She didn’t look at me when she said it.
Then Jordan tapped a fork on his glass.
“I just want to say,” he said, “it means everything to have Mom home with family, where she belongs.”
Tommy said, “Hear, hear.”
“And we’ve got news. After New Year’s, Mom’s moving in with us. A real nurse in the house for Easton. How about that?”
Everybody clapped.
Krystal’s mother put a hand on her heart.
Tommy raised his glass at me. “Family takes care of family.”
I hadn’t said one word about moving anywhere.
I sat there on the couch with my cane behind my leg and clapped too, because Easton was clapping and looking at me to see if I would.
I found Jordan in the hall by the coats, checking his phone.
“I didn’t say I’d move in.”
“You’ll say it.” He didn’t look up. “Where else are you going to go, Mom? Seriously.”
“I have a place.”
“No, you don’t.” Now he looked up.
He was almost gentle about it. “Deirdre’s done with you. She told me herself.”
The drawer by the toaster
Krystal was in the kitchen putting cookies on a plate, her back to the door.
“Krystal,” I said. “Where’s my phone?”
She turned around. “Your…”
“My phone. It was in a drawer at your old place. Did it come with you?”
She looked at me a long second.
Then she wiped her hands on a towel and opened the drawer by the toaster.
Batteries, twist ties, a menu from a pizza place, Easton’s swim goggles.
And my old phone, the cord wrapped around it tight and neat, the way Jordan wraps anything he doesn’t want to deal with.
I plugged it in by the toaster.
It took four minutes to wake up.
Krystal didn’t go back to her cookies.
There was no passcode.
His dad set that phone up for me, and I wouldn’t let him put a code on it because I’d forget it.
He said, “Selma, somebody’s going to read your mail.”
I said let them, it’s all coupons.
The screen came on.
The top message was from Krystal. “It’s what’s best for everyone, Selma.”
She’d sent it to a phone sitting in her own kitchen drawer.
Krystal went red from the collar up.
She said nothing. Good for her.
Under it was a thread that just said Deirdre Boone.
I scrolled to the very top.
It took a while.
My thumb’s not fast, and there were six years of it.
“This is Deirdre Boone, night aide on your mother’s hall. She lifted a cup today. Thought you’d want to know.”
“She asked for you.”
“She said your name today. Jordan. Clear as anything. She wanted you to know she can say it.”
“Her savings would cover outpatient therapy. Please call.”
And under that, the only bubble on the right side of the screen.
Sent from this phone, two weeks after Room 114.
“Stop texting this number.”
She didn’t stop.
She sent one most Sunday nights, around nine-thirty.
Muncie.
“She walked to the mailbox.”
“She made this for the baby.”
The hat, on Deirdre’s kitchen table, in the picture she said was too good not to take.
“She started nursing school. Top of her class.”
“She’s giving the speech in December at the Coliseum. Come. Sit up front, where she can see you.”
Every one of them opened.
Not one answered after the first.
The last was from Saturday night, 1:12 AM.
“She thinks I wanted her gone. You did that. I won’t write to this number again.”
Krystal was reading over my shoulder.
“He told me she didn’t know anybody,” she said. “He said she never got any better. He said it’d be cruel to go see her.”
I typed with my thumb.
It took me three tries to get my own name right.
“It’s Selma. Come get me.”
It said Delivered. Then it said Read.
The tree
Her answer came in under a minute. “Ten minutes. Don’t you eat that man’s ham.”
The cord wouldn’t reach past the toaster, so I unplugged it and carried the phone in on nine percent.
They were all by the tree.
Tommy in the recliner.
Krystal’s mother on the couch with Easton and a book about dump trucks.
Jordan at the fireplace with a drink, like a man in a furniture catalog.
“Would you take Easton up to see his room?” I said to Krystal’s mother.
She looked at Krystal.
Krystal nodded.
Easton went up the stairs with his airplane, and I waited until I heard a door.
Then I held the phone out to Jordan.
“Read me the one you wrote,” I said.
He knew that phone the second he saw it.
He set his drink on the mantel without looking where.
“Where’d you get that?”
“Your junk drawer.”
“Krystal, you went in my…”
“It’s her phone,” Krystal said.
“That woman harassed us for six years.”
He said it to Tommy, not to me.
“Hundreds of texts, Tommy. Every Sunday. You know what that’s like? We had a baby coming. We were trying to buy a house. She’s sending me reports like I’m her boss.”
“She said your name today,” I read. “Clear as anything.”
“She didn’t know me, Mom. Not at first. You didn’t…”
“Stop texting this number,” I read.
Tommy put the footrest of the recliner down.
It went down with a clunk you could feel in the floor.
“You told us she didn’t know who you were,” he said. “Christmas. Easter. Every time Krystal asked. You said seeing us would upset her.”
“It WOULD have.”
“You said she couldn’t talk.”
“She COULDN’T, Tommy. Not right. Not then. And the rehab was going to be months, months, and the insurance was going to run out, and do you know what that costs? Do you? I asked. Nobody else in this family asked. I’m the one who asked.”
He was walking now, fireplace to tree and back.
“What was I supposed to do? Put my kid in a two-bedroom in a lousy school so she could squeeze a ball?”
Nobody said anything.
Upstairs, Easton laughed at something.
The doorbell rang.
Krystal let Deirdre in.
She had her good coat over the blue church dress and a drip of candle wax still on one knuckle from the late service.
She didn’t wipe her feet, which for Deirdre is a declaration of war.
She held her phone up for the room.
“Read,” she said, and scrolled. “Read. Read. Read. Six years I watched that little word come up under every one. He blocked me on his own phone the first week. So I wrote to hers. I knew whose drawer it was in.”
“You never told her,” Jordan said.
“What was I going to tell her? That he answered once?”
Jordan laughed, short and ugly.
“You got your show. You got to be the saint in front of a whole arena.”
“I wanted a son in a chair,” Deirdre said. “I’d have settled for that.”
I sat down on the arm of the couch.
My left leg was shaking, and I didn’t want him to have it.
“Say what you said in the hallway,” I said.
“Mom.”
“To Tommy. Say it.”
“I’m not doing this on Christmas Eve.”
“You did it on a Tuesday,” I said. “Before supper.”
He looked at Krystal.
She was holding the cookie plate.
She’d carried it in from the kitchen without knowing it and she was still holding it.
“Say it,” Krystal said, “or I’ll say it, and I’ll say it worse.”
He stood there with the tree blinking behind him.
“I said she wasn’t coming back from it anyway,” he said.
Krystal set the plate down on the coffee table, very carefully, and started to cry.
“$31,206.40,” I said.
“What?”
“My savings and my Buick. Applied to care.”
“That’s in the house. That’s Easton’s…”
“I know where it is. I’ve been looking at the wreath.”
Krystal wiped her face with the back of her wrist and took out her phone.
“What’s your account, Selma?”
“Krystal. Krys. That’s ours. That’s the house account.”
“It’s hers,” Krystal said. “Read me the number.”
I read it off the card in my wallet.
She typed it in.
She asked whether she should round it.
“No,” I said.
Jordan reached for her phone, and Tommy stood up out of the recliner.
He didn’t touch him.
He didn’t have to.
He’s a big man, and he had the reindeer on.
“Sit down,” Tommy said.
Jordan sat down on his own stairs.
“Now the post,” Tommy said. “Take it down. I want to see you do it.”
Jordan took it down with his thumb, all of us standing over him.
“And you’re putting up a new one. Your face. Your words. What you just said.”
“Tommy, come on.”
“Krystal, hold the phone for him.”
She held it.
Jordan looked into it like it might bite him.
“I signed my mother into Room 114 after her stroke,” he said. “I said she wasn’t coming back. Deirdre Boone took her home. She wrote me every week for six years, and I answered once.”
He stopped. “That’s it.”
“Thank her,” I said.
He looked at Deirdre. “Thanks.”
“I didn’t hear you,” Deirdre said.
“Thank you, Deirdre.”
Tommy went to the foot of the stairs and told his wife to bring the boy’s coat down.
Then he turned around.
“Krystal’s coming home with us tonight,” he said. “Easton too.”
“It’s Christmas,” Jordan said.
“It is,” Tommy said.
Deirdre held my coat open for me.
I put my good arm in first.
She pulled the front door shut behind us.
The wreath swung on its hook.
Deirdre’s front window
The Corolla rattled at forty, and I said I was sorry before we got to the first stop sign.
“You said a mean thing,” Deirdre said. “I’ve had meaner said to me at three in the morning by a man with a broken hip.”
“I thought you were writing to your sister in Muncie.”
She laughed so hard she had to pull into the Kroger lot.
Then she wasn’t laughing, and neither was I, and we sat there with the engine running and held on to each other over the cupholders until a man in a Santa hat tapped on the glass to ask if we were all right.
“She’s a nurse,” Deirdre told him. “I’m just the one that drives.”
The post came down at 9:51 that night.
The new one went up at 10:06, Jordan on his own stairs in his Christmas sweater, and by morning it had more shares than the first.
The money landed in my account at 10:14.
$31,206.40.
Krystal didn’t round it.
Tommy took down his “Some people” and shared the new one with no words at all, which from Tommy is a sermon.
Jordan woke up Christmas morning alone in four bedrooms in a better school district.
Krystal told me later he ate the ham.
At ten, Tommy’s truck pulled up in front of Deirdre’s house.
Krystal and Easton got out.
A minute later Jordan’s SUV pulled in behind it and stopped at the curb, engine running.
Krystal’s rule, texted to me at eight: he could drive behind them, and he could not come in.
Easton came up the walk with grocery-store flowers in cellophane.
Krystal had asked what I liked, and Deirdre had told her.
I got the bread bag down from the hall closet.
The hat was made for a newborn.
It sat on top of his five-year-old head like a cupcake liner, and he would not take it off.
Deirdre gave him the orange tennis ball.
He threw it straight down the hall.
It bounced once, rolled into the kitchen and under the table.
Then my old phone buzzed on the counter.
Only one person had been reading that number.
“Can I come in? Just for a minute. Please, Mom.”
I went to the front window.
Through the gap in Deirdre’s curtain I could see him in the driver’s seat, both hands on the wheel, looking at the house like it might wave.
I typed with my thumb.
I spelled everything right.
“Stop texting this number.”
I let the curtain fall shut.
In the kitchen, Easton was flat on his belly, reaching under the table for the ball.
I left the cane by the door.
I walked across Deirdre’s kitchen, got down on one knee, which took a while, and came up with it.
I rolled it back to him.
He rolled it to me.
“Again,” Deirdre said.
Talk to your doctor about ongoing symptoms; sudden weakness, numbness or trouble speaking needs emergency help immediately.
If this one got to you, send it to the Deirdre in your life, the one who stayed past her shift.
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